Life improved because it went to pot
Pittsburgh: “Marijuana can make you a better parent,” (March 6) is a dead-on nice article.
I ended smoking for 20-plus years and struggled with the every day grind of elevating 4 youngsters — three boys, one woman. The nervousness and anger and matches and arguments turned insufferable at occasions. I attempted a number of anti-depressants and nervousness medicine. Nothing helped me cope. Then, I lastly stated, “Eff it! I’m smoking!”
Bingo, my life and my relationship with my youngsters blossomed and took off right into a implausible parent-child relationship!
No extra arguing, no extra screaming, no extra uncomfortable discussions, no extra nervousness, no extra mind-spinning worries!
My youngsters observed the distinction instantly and requested me about my change. I used to be utterly trustworthy and upfront and defined and educated them on marijuana.
I don't smoke in entrance of them, however they're conscious that I exploit it.
It principally saved me from dropping sleep and lacking out on the fabulous teenage years of sports activities and enjoyment of their lives.
It opened my thoughts to their minds and helped me really perceive the world that youngsters live in right now. Anthony N. Carlisano
Playing pot percentages
Yonkers: As a now retired 35-year veteran of the NYPD, I feel I can clarify with pretty easy arithmetic the obvious bias of marijuana enforcement being greater in minority neighborhoods vs. white ones. The variety of officers assigned to a precinct is predicated on crime figures, i.e. larger crime equals extra cops. Sadly, the minority areas often have larger crime numbers and therefore, extra cops assigned. Some if not most of those “high crime commands” are small geographically, however are densely populated in comparison with the decrease crime areas. More cops with extra individuals will often translate to extra enforcement. And speaking from expertise as a precinct commander in minority neighborhoods, the hue and cry coming from the populace was for extra cops to do stricter enforcement, not much less, notably when it got here to high quality of life violations which the minority residents claimed wouldn't be tolerated in “white neighborhoods.” And you realize what, they have been proper. Thomas Mullen
Out of scent, out of thoughts
Brooklyn: To Voicer Frank Teti: Let individuals smoke in their very own residence and not their house or rental. The stench of pot smoke via vents and outdoors your door in condo buildings just isn't enjoyable. Think of these with medical points that your pot is affecting. Go get a home the place nobody is round however pot people who smoke and their fellow puffers. Ramona Scott
Pay for what you ask
Manhattan: The headline and article concerning the Hugh Carey (Brooklyn Battery) Tunnel reconstruction is a shocking misrepresentation of the details relating to the price of this key infrastructure undertaking (“Money pit,” March eight). After submitting the bottom bid amongst 13 bidders, the corporate discovered its work plan, finances and schedule subjected to quite a few modifications imposed by the undertaking proprietor. The greatest method to management venture value is to not change the challenge after the contractor has already began work. To do in any other case is like hiring a contractor to renovate your kitchen and then deciding you additionally need one other room added. The rule is straightforward. You get a invoice for what you need constructed and whenever you add extra work, you have to pay for it. Get your plans proper the primary time and you'll get an correct backside line. Denise M. Richardson,
Executive Director, General Contractors Association of New York
Cranston, R.I. Why are you utilizing the phrase “rabid” (“77-year-old woman attacked by rabid otter while kayaking,” March 7)? Perhaps the otter was defending newborns. Without figuring out if the otter was rabid, you could trigger a killing backlash of this endangered species. The lady had precautionary rabies and antibiotics photographs; the otter was not examined. Marilyn Hudson
Brooklyn: Where is the top of Mayor de Blasio and his chancellor search groups? Time and once more considered one of his appointees for a place is tainted or has a cloudy previous. Is there not an investigation course of? Must we fill the place so shortly with out extending our attain for a reputable, skilled and forward-looking candidate? Don’t our hard-working academics and college students deserve a pacesetter who they will belief and depend upon to succeed in their instructional objectives? In a metropolis as nice as New York we demand and deserve solely the most effective. Keep looking! Ann Marie Sabol-Stefanuk
Desegregate the faculties
Brooklyn: As Errol Louis identified in his column (“Mayor, learn from your city,” March 6), let’s hope our segregated faculties system is a precedence for brand spanking new chancellor, Richard Carranza. Jill Bloomberg, principal of Park Slope Collegiate in District 15, the place my daughter is in 11th grade, had a gathering a yr in the past to debate this situation with our mother and father and these of the opposite faculties within the campus of John Jay High, Millennium H.S. The results of the good step ahead by Bloomberg led to her being brandished a “communist” on this day and age. She was virtually tarred and feathered. Carmen Fariña (and Mayor de Blasio) did nothing to maneuver this situation ahead throughout her tenure. I'm watching keenly to see how the segregated-schools challenge might be dealt with. Annette Johnson
Blue lies matter
St. Petersburg, Fla.: Police lying in courtroom isn’t restricted solely to the town cops. I’m 100% pro-cop, however my spouse obtained a ticket for speaking on her cellular phone whereas stopped at a light-weight in Suffolk County. She was actually simply leaning her elbow on the door together with her head resting on her hand. This might very a lot appear to be somebody speaking on a cellphone, so when she was stopped she defined to the cop and provided her telephone so he might verify if there had been any outgoing or incoming calls inside the earlier time. He refused, so we obtained the telephone report and went to courtroom considering the officer had simply mistakenly believed she was responsible. Much to our shock, after displaying the decide the proof from the telephone firm, the officer then claimed she had a second telephone, which was completely unfaithful! My spouse received a lecture about committing perjury from this decide, when the truth is it was the cop who was perjuring himself. The case was dismissed however this cop lied a few easy cellular phone. God solely is aware of what he would do about lying over one thing far more critical. I advised him what I considered him after we left the courtroom and adopted him outdoors persevering with to inform him what a shame he was to the division. His reply was, “At least you had to miss a day’s work,” with a smirk on his face. He was in uniform and I made positive everybody round heard me. I assume I’m fortunate I wasn’t arrested for abuse as a result of I might’ve been responsible nevertheless it felt good! Bill Barrett
How hate finds a house
Bronx: I'm about Tamika Mallory’s age, and I perceive her bond with Louis Farrakhan, as I've my very own unusual loyalties to people who find themselves contemptible (“Coddling an anti-Semite,” editorial, March 9). Years of being “triggered” virtually weekly, mixed with a seek for which means and affirmation in a society the place most individuals usually are not political. I detest those that do me hurt, and someplace alongside the best way I started to miss the faults of those that did proper by me. And I gave up a few of my function in life so as to really feel a belonging to one thing higher. Jorge Sierra
Guns vs. automobiles
Brooklyn: To Voicer Don Whitman: The distinction is a automotive just isn't meant to kill individuals — whereas the aim of a gun is! Like you stated — “common sense.” Andrew Feinstein
Manhattan: As a local New Yorker, I'm not a fan of congestion pricing (“Uber aboard congestion push,” March 7). It is a tax and an inconvenience for NYC’s beleaguered center class. This concept being pushed by elitist forces, if it have been put to a common vote would certainly fail. Therefore, I consider Mayor de Blasio’s plan for a millionaires/billionaires tax to fund transit is the best way to go. Nick Gatsoulis
Lost in translation
Kew Gardens: Congratulations to Ichiro Suzuki upon his return to the Seattle Mariners, the group with which he began his sure-to- be Hall of Fame profession again in 2000. One factor that I don't perceive, nevertheless, is why Ichiro nonetheless wants a translator to talk with the press. He has been within the U.S. for almost 19 years and he has made oodles of cash. Can’t he afford English classes? Barry Koppel